How to Love (Mindfulness Essentials)
J**C
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This is a beautiful third novella in the Mindfulness Essentials series, focusing on love and kindness. It can be read by anyone, you don’t need to have read any of the other books in the series.The book is made up of short, poetic chapters featuring teachings and insights by Thích Nhất Hạnh. At the end, it includes mindfulness practices and mantras.The relatable tone is easy to read and presented in an accessible, non-judgmental way. The principles offer guidance not only on romantic love, but also on platonic, familial and self-love. One of the key concepts explored throughout the book is the Four Elements of True Love: loving-kindness, compassion, joy, and equanimity.This is a lovely, concise work that blends practical advice, like mindful breathing and compassionate listening, with deep philosophical insights about life and love.I really loved this simple, heartfelt little book, it’s something anyone can pick up and find something meaningful about love.Favorite Quotes:“The more you understand, the more you love; the more you love, the more you understand. They are two sides of one reality. The mind of love and the mind of understanding are the same.”“Mindful living is an art, and each of us has to train to be an artist.”“Understanding someone’s suffering is the best gift you can give another person. Understanding is love’s other name. If you don’t understand, you can’t love.”
L**T
We all need How to Love
Thay has given us another priceless offering in this short book. He says at one point that we do not have a school/a class in which we teach/learn love. He has offered something of a master course in these pages. How to Love is essential reading!
B**S
I always keep this book with me to give it away
I read a tremendous amount, and this is one of the books I always have on me to give away to friends and loved ones.I am reviewing this on Kindle because a close dear friend of mine liked reading this on the plane so much I decided to give it to her. I wanted to read it again myself so I just bought the Kindle!This is a reminder to order it again so I can have the joy of giving it away to someone close again.
L**S
Relationship Love not platonic love
I love these books. They are thought provoking and also easy to apply to life. Easy to recall and are an open hearted approach to love and kindness. No blame - self reflection.I would like to express though that this particular Love seems to be centered about an intimate relation not necessarily a friendship or platonic relationship but around maybe someone you live with like a husband or partner or significant other. I was looking for something that touch on platonic friendships. Women specifically-we can be a tough crew.
J**E
Beautiful Intentions with Room to Grow
I am not a self-help book type of person, and I used to take a weird kind of pride in that. But when my partner of 12 years left me last spring, it disrupted my life in ways I couldn't just shrug off. At a friend's recommendation, I bought this book with a big dose of skepticism. My first read through was fast - not because of the simplistic language and ideas, but because I was looking for the answers to my questions and solutions to my problems. On my second read, I slowed down and appreciated the surface messages and the beautiful language. I'm on my 10th or 11th read through this book, and often pick it up to read passages whenever I'm feeling down to spark good, healthy thinking (I'm so anti-self-help I still have an aversion to calling it "meditation"). But the book itself won't make you better: you have to put in the work and learn to be whole. The book is there to provide healthy relationship goals, but in the end, you always need to be responsible for your own happiness. If there are any shortcuts, I haven't found them yet.The author gives wonderful guidance and advice, and provides good descriptions of what a loving relationship should be. I don't agree 100% with everything in the book, but it's full of beautiful intentions and open-hearted encouragement.
A**N
Very wise and helpful
I love Thich Nhat Hanh's writings, and this book presents ideas that I have not heard elsewhere. Wonderful ways to bring loving thoughts and actions into your life.
O**Z
Great teachings
I chose this rating because it is an easy read with meaningful teachings. I have been practicing some of the teachings for a week now and already feel better. More true to myself helping to be true to others. I would recommend this book to anyone who has room for improvement in their self being, which is most people!!
F**I
A lovely, powerful book
"To love without knowing *how* to love wounds the person we love." Such a simple sentence with so much wisdom packed in one sentence. This distinction between the feeling of love and the skill to love is an important one. We all know that but never have I had a teacher clearly identify the differences between true love and unhealthy attachments so clearly. And lo and behold, true love is not about identifying and fixing the deficiencies in others, but rather, cultivating love and healing in yourself first. If we love with a wounded, desperate heart, we do great harm to others and only perpetuate our own suffering while creating fresh trauma for others. And on and on it goes. This lovely book has inspired me to do more work on my own wounds while reminding me of simple, powerful practices to show love for my spouse and children. Listen deeply. Show the same reverence that you offer an honored guest. Cultivate joy at every opportunity.
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